Frequently Asked Questions

Who are you?

I much prefer that question to the more standard - what do you do? I'm a fifty one year old New Zealand dad who has been raising his children as a single dad for the past decade (give or take). When I became a single dad I looked for material to help me understand who I had become but most of the material was either for single mums or was unhelpful. So I started blogging and eventually I decided to share my experiences in a book - A Single Dad's Guide to the Galaxy.

What do you do?

If you must ask! Loads . . .

What do you mean by single dad/parent?

When I call myself a single dad I mean that the parenting done in my home is done by me and nobody else. Rose is my "ex", who is also a single parent, and between the two of us we are raising our children. 

Are you single?

No, I have a very lovely partner who is a singe parent herself.

Can you speak at our event?

Sure but it depends where it is and what you are trying to achieve. If you want to know a little bit more about me check out my bio and then email me and we can see if it works.

Can I contact you?

Sure but cut me some slack as I don't live on-line, we are probably in different time zones and I'm juggling a few things at the moment.  Email is preferred though you can contact me via Twitter and to a lesser extent Facebook. Please note - I don't give out advice on parenting or relationships because I don't have the answers, you do.

Why are you still blogging?

Because life goes on and I'm still learning. My children are now mini-adults and will soon be flying on their own and I have no idea what that's going to feel like. Blogging is my way of both connecting with people and collecting my thoughts before they are lost forever.

Where can I buy your book?

To be honest that's not a FAQ, yet . . . The book is being launched on 13 July 2017 and I'll let you know then!